修炼从容自信的女人

You are not in charge of the universe; you are in charge of yourself. （A.Bennett）

你并不掌管整个宇宙，但你得掌管你自己。（本涅特）

To maintain orders in commotion， one needs to cultivate such spirit leisure. To be undisturbed by death， one needs to see through the vain of life.
忙处不乱性，须闲处心神养得清；死时不动心，须生时事看得破。——《菜根谭》

None is of freedom or life deserving unless he daily conquers it anew. ( Erasmus)
只有每天再度战胜生活并夺取自由的人，才配享受生活或自由。(伊拉斯漠)